Cynthia Elisabeth's Personal Blog♪✿

I never really thought of anything religion-related when I talked or played with my friends during my childhood time. Never ever once judged them by the religion or belief they had. Well, probably because most of my childhood friends had the same beliefs as I am since I went to a Catholic school until secondary high. I would just casually talk to my Moslem, Hindu, and Buddhist friends. No hard feeling or any negative thinking.

But the whole thing started to change when I entered senior high school. I started to realize that I was just a minority. That was the truth. There were many times I felt unfair treatment from my friends and teachers, but I could not do anything about it. I used to hate them, but as time goes by I just let it become my past experience and nothing more.

And recently this country started to "fight" with each other, especially on social media. I just could not bear how come people are religious but hate each other? I'm not on a specific side, no side is better if you pointed your finger at each other and blame the government and worse, making questionable rumors. I am truly disappointed at how this country has become. Religion, which should be a matter between you and God only, becomes a matter that everyone thinks they are the most expert at. 

"Killing kafir is halal"

"Raping women who support kafir is halal."

Oh my God. This just makes my blood boil to the highest degree it can probably reach. 

What a sad truth. Some people think we, the minority, are from the whole different planet when the truth we share the same nationality and same language.

Well, no, I won't hate those kind of people. I will just pray that this nation will not turn into a chaotic country like Syria did. Jeez, just the thought of it sends the shiver down my spine. I still have high hopes for Indonesia and I will try my best to contribute to this country's growth.

Well, at least wait till I can also help grow my mother's hometown to become a prosperous city :)

So I just watched some videos on Youtube where the vloggers who are foreigners in South Korea tried social experiment to see whether Koreans are nice to foreigner or not. Recalling to my experience when I  was in South Korea for about a month for summer school at Sungkyunkwan University, I could say Koreans are nice to foreigner like me.

This started when I landed off at Incheon International Airport. I was that type of girl who does not want to ask much when I can find the answer on Google. But that time was different, my phone almost drained its battery and I can't do anything beside asking. So I asked the information centre where I could go buy the bus ticket to Sungkyunkwan-ro (the area where my summer school uni located). The information centre people were so nice and they explained clearly where I should go and wait, and how much is the ticket price.

Another kindness from Korean I met was when I could not find my accomodation. It was located nearby the university but I still could not find it eventhough I can read Hangeul (Korean alphabet). And as I mentioned before my battery almost died and I could not also call my Indonesian friend who was at Jeju at that time to ask for help. So I asked two Korean girls in English, "Do you know where Core Livingtel (my accomodation) is?" They understood what I said, however as probably they were coming from outside area they did not know where it was and just said, "Sorry... we do not know."

And then I asked a Korean girl again for help in the university front entrance. This time with my 4% phone battery, I opened the mail from the owner of accomodation (Thank God that Korea has so many open public wifi) and showed the name of the accomodation to this girl. She opened her phone and after searching for few seconds (I think she used Naver map) she eventually said, "Ah.. keugo (that)... it is near this university. Just go that way." She pointed on the right side with her hand. 

So I asked, "Is it far from here?" 

"No! I think just 1 or 2 minute. I can accompany you, but can you wait, because I'm waiting for my friend." she replied.

Wow, this girl was so nice. Of course I refused her help to accompany me because that would bother her. So I decided to go alone.

"Is it on the right or the left side?" I asked for the last.

"Oh.. on the right." she answered and smiled. So I thanked her with Korean language "Kamsahamnida" and left. I could finally find my accomodation which actually was located in the second floor of some kind of small shophouse complex. As I was completely new in Korea, I did not know that the building system in Korea was different from Indonesia or Singapore/Malaysia (the countries I have ever been to). In Indonesia, the accomodation for tourist or foreign student is completely a whole building, whereas in Korea it can be conjoint with restaurants, billiard place, or internet cafe like mine. 

So back again to the topic, I could say that Koreans are nice to foreigners AS LONG AS YOU ARE NICE AND BEHAVE POLITELY. Well, this should apply to all countries as well, isn't it? Who loves it when a stranger gets drunk on the street and say harsh words to local people? 

Are they gonna help when we ask for direction? SURE, WHY NOT. Eventhough many Koreans are not that good in English, they will try to help you. I had an experience when I went around Seoul city with my Indonesian friend, we got lost and tried to ask the street polices. They could not speak English very well but they were so kind that they tried for a while to understand what we said. At the end they asked, "Where are you from?" and we answered we are Indonesian, they said, "Wow.. apa kabar?" Haha, so surprised to hear them saying that. Maybe that's becaue they have met Indonesian tourists so many times hahaha.

I could not mention one by one, because my experience facing with Koreans were so many and they were all nice. Well, maybe some can do stereotyping at first because I am Indonesian, but after that they just talked to me like normal people would do. 

Don't be afraid to ask to Koreans when you travel to there and get lost. They will help you.

"But, what if I wear hijab? Will Koreans be afraid to me?"

Nope. Stereotyping may exist in Korea for hijabers and some races, but that does not mean they will not be nice to you. I have seen my summer school participants fellow who wore hijab but she just casually talked to Korean friends/people and they were nice to her. I think instead of afraid, they are just curious why someone can wear  hijab in such a hot weather.

Tips from me when you travel to South Korea:

1. Have an app that can show you the subway map and schedule (I forgot the name, but it is from Ma lang app creator). Korean subway is the best transportation you can have. It is on time and relatively cheap. You can also use the bus direction app but I do not know if there is an offline one. I used the Kakao Bus and it uses the internet.

2. If you get lost and afraid to ask to local Koreans, there are many information centre and police stations. The information centre usually provides direction and info in English, Korean, Chinese, and Japanese. For example in Myeongdong, the famous street for cosmetics and clothing, at scheduled time have two or more persons you can rely on to ask information.

3. From my experience, it is kind of useless if you try to speak in formal Korean language when you are not that fluent in Korean. If you want to ask where the restroom/toilet is, just say, "Hwajangsil odiyeyo?" or you can just say "Hwajangsil?" instead of saying complete sentences like the ones on the travel guide book. Or if you want to order one or two servings at a restaurant, just say "Hana" or "Tuge (ddugae)" insted of saying "Il-bun" or "Du-bun" or simply just point out your finger(s).

4. Behave politely, as I said before. Do not speak loudly in your language in subway with your friend. Only ahjumma and halmeoni/harabeoji can speak loudly in subway haahaha.

That's all! Thank you for reading this. If you have experience or questions to ask, just leave on the comment section below. Have a nice day!